It has been brought to my attention by two separate people that i don't see them as men. Really, dude seriously, you want to go that way? SMH! To paraphrase Katt Williams, it's called SELF-ESTEEM! It's esteem of your self. How am I gonna eff up how you feel about yourself you simple man ?
In other words, grow a pair. I still don't understand why people worry about what others think or say about them. There are people who are worth the trouble and then there is the rest. Go figure!