15 October 2005

In The Name of Love

The things we do in the name of love. Am not passing judgment over what is right or wrong am just musing over the things that we at times do in this great name. See most of the time the opinion of others doesn’t count we know what we know and that is more than good enough for us. I came p with the following: -
Quit a habit that the other doesn’t approve or like e.g. drinking alcohol or smoking
Start a habit that the other does e.g. the above
Stop hanging out with your crew or friends
Change our dressing and appearances
Participate in past times that we don’t enjoy e.g. watching soccer
Avoid airing opinion that oppose that of the other
Liar Liar pants on fire, telling what the other would rather hear than the truth.
Disbelief vibe about partner from others
Deny ad make excuses for other ‘s wrongs
Get abused and still stay.
Give access to your finances, house etc.
Cancel your plans to do stuff with other.
Move in and play the wife.
Get Jealous, insecure, paranoid and obsess over nothing.
Steal the phone and read the SMS
Calls up those you think are potentials to inform them that you own him.
Spend all your time together
Have unprotected sex coz he wont use protection, it makes him uncomfortable boo hoo
Believe that he will leave the other ad marry you
Change religion/beliefs/principles
Lose or gain weight
Quit work and move to another part of the world or country
Have a baby/get pregnant to tie him/her to you
Spend more that you ca afford so as to impress them

These are some of the ones I came up wit. So what you have done I the name of love?

16 comments:

  1. spent your cash
    made urself vulnerable
    been a fool...just to name a few.

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  2. turned from a hard nosed cynic to a soft teddy bear.Blech!

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  3. Its a thin line between love and hate. I always find the one you love can make you sooooo furious or hurt with the smallest of things... d*mn, double d*mn!!!

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  4. BTW

    Was the list yurs ma-reality ama yurs ma-novel?

    Jus querying... LOLOLOL

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  5. Things I have doen in the name of love have made me a much better person as I learnt to put the other first and emphathise with them.
    The things I have done in the spirit of lust and attraction are much more interesting.

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  6. Been too much "in love". Love is a balancing act, you can't show too much affection or you'll push her away and you can't be too cold or she'll feel neglected.

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  7. This am not & this I cannot stand in a relationship: "Get Jealous, insecure, paranoid and obsess over nothing".
    -Something I value & put in my top 3: Personal space to think, grow & engage in stuff that interests us without necessarily taggig loved one along.
    -What I give & expect in return: Trust, Care, Support

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  9. Change their schedules to fit theirs...

    Let me borrow Sandman's words hehhehe starting usind words like WE and PARK in the same sentence lol

    Hhehehe am awed get paged to hold the guy down? thats a classic on the real eisshhh things they do for love ala?

    Nice post.

    How was kenyatta day tyt girlfie? u still owe me Nyam Chom right?

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  10. 23 oct 2005

    Go shortie its ur birthday!!!!
    happy birthday i tried sms u on safcom and ur bilas? whats up?
    happy birthday may the orange peel look ever so vibrant and the juice be as sweet or get better with age!
    GO GO GO

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  11. HAPPY BIRTHDAY JOLLY GOOD FELLA!

    SMILE SMILE COZ I WENT TO THE ZOO I SAW A MONKEY AND I THOUGHT TWAS YOU!

    SMILE CUTE GIRL!

    LIVE ON LIVE A LEGACY

    ALL OF MY LOVE AND GOD'S BLESSINGS!

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  12. must say that i mean the things that you have done while in love with the idea of being in love quite a number if i say so myself.
    @ nick
    spend cash buying gifts you couldn't afford pole sana at least now you know.
    @milo
    now some are from yours truly and others via the experience of others which is just as good. yeah seems like the small things do count anyway huh!
    @proussette
    pray do tell the things done in the name of lust juicy jcuicy juicy. i must agree though that those things either way make you better at least if you are the type to learn from your mistakes or otherwise.
    @sandman
    tell me about it, you know this balancing act aint no good especially if you have to left hands (sic)
    @akiey
    i agree with you. now can we clone you? pretty please
    @poi
    kenyatta day was great though short with owrk the next day u know. Now that nyama choma plot let me know when actually lets make that ole polos or a new joint i hear around there ololoitikoshi or something like that the places we wont go for myamchom.
    @shiroh
    i have done that too and ended up feeling worse than i had before reading it so its a no-no for me.
    @nick and POi
    thank you for remembering my bday. Off to a slow start but picked up. had good company, wined, dined and yeah.

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  13. that one of changing religion / beliefs / principles should be a NO-GO!!

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  14. All for love??? If you loved me you would - what kill, steal?

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