5 February 2006

Dear You




These words couldn't put it better:-
I try to say goodbye and I choke
Try to walk away and I stumble
Though I try to hide it, it's clear
My world crumbles when you are not here
Goodbye and I choke
I try to walk away and I stumble
Though I try to hide it, it's clear
My world crumbles when you are not here

Aint reality a b*ach. I have been fighting reality for a while now. I thought that i was strong and could walk away if i chose to then the B*ACH got me so am sitting at my usual lunch joint ALL HAIL KENCHIC and ALI'S on the easy having my usual bhajias then the thought comes creeping on me. See i have not seen you in a while now partly intentional partly just cant get myself to call but have sent you a text In that while i must admit that i have kept the whole things at the back and chose to forget or ignore or whichever.I thought that i had dealt with my feelings for you. I miss you just that simple i miss you, your company just the way i can talk to you about anything from sex to God. I love the way i know the side that many dont know my very own doctor eh baba vipi hiyo dose. Cant believe i thought that you were some arrogant SOB only to get to know you, your dreams,your fears,your hopes,the plans for that beach house at 60 you know my number still the same so hola. The times when you woke me up at 2am to do your confessions and declarations, you have no idea how much it touched me that you would let the shield down and let me see you at your lowest, that you would let me hold you that you knew you can tell me anything. How you shared your disappointments,worries and drama (my lips are sealed) and the juiciest of pasts that i have come to know so far.I remembering from the first dance to all the dances hukos in live band you trying to outdance me how plus the full bango classes. I love the way you stood up to me i mean just in my face get pissed if you want to but you always were the first to tell me if i was tripping. Remember the tender, dont think we are advertising it anyday soon think the committee will be out on this one. The drama, the suspicion then the way we worked together to fix that, the bible study and sharing about God. The farmiliarity,you know how i like my things and do right by me. For putting up with me that darl was a feat since even i know who i am. Sometimes i wonder if i have done the right thing but maybe its better this way.What iam saying is that i miss you. Just that i Miss you.

14 comments:

  1. pole dada I have a rough idea how that feels.. I hope you get through stronger and a better person

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  2. Take heart, been there, done that. Regarding matters of the heart we grew up with this lesson from parents & elder cousins:
    "Vumilia na usikate tamaa. Maisha ni kama msumeno ukatao mbele na nyuma lakini mwishowe hutulia tulii"

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  3. I can dig it.
    Been wondering too- to call or not to call? That my dear is the Question!!

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  4. (((((((((HUG)))))))))))))). I feel you so totally. You will be okay.
    Keep well

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  5. oh goodness. i know what you feel. to have to bite urself everytime u look at the phone, not good at all!! dont know how to get over it either.

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  6. Woishe just hang in there...

    You'll be giving and getting a personal best...

    Yaani yur post is deeply moving Gish...

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  7. And I miss you too.

    Come home to Daddy.

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  8. Ali's have the best fries ever!

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  9. Wow that is so beautiful !!! I'm struck by how deep that post is, and how open you are about such personal stuff .. which is great (it's like a peek into a precious hidden diary)

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  10. lol at BJ...hee hee kumbe he's ur doc,u prof u..i rememeber that vibe dada.

    Thanks for that song its been a while since i heard it...Macy Gray...damn ebu i start croaking like she does best

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  11. I am really sorry for what you feel.

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  12. That Macy Gray was my anthem when she first chucked that song and now its come full circle to haunt me all over again. Damn you mapenzi!!.

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